Teenage life can be one of the most confusing and very trying time of a person’s life. A person not only goes through mental changes in this stage but also a lot of physical and hormonal changes take place in our body. This makes the way we think and approach life to be much different to what we would like it to be!
Here, are some tips that I have gathered from some specialists in psychology and human biology. These tips have been simplified in order for the average reader to understand completely!
Your body changes
Teenage or adolescence is the time your body will experience growth spurts and puberty changes. This is the time when your sexual maturation will take place. Making your sexual orientation to almost completely take over you. For boys they will feel the enlargement of their testicles and the penis whilst for girls they will get their menstruation and feel the development of their breasts. In both male and female they will experience the g
rowth of pubic hair first and then hair in the under arms.
How to streamline your thoughts’
You will have many thoughts that will take over your mind. Most of it is bound to be related to your sexual orientation. You will find yourself helplessly attracted to the opposite sex. In order to pull your mind into control you can try spending your energy and thoughts on things like sports or enjoying time with family and friends. You need to ensure that you are able to draw the boundary for your thoughts, because teenagers make mistakes in their adolescence only to regret it later in life. Don’t go with the, ‘you only live once!’ motto, rather go with the motto ‘you only live once so do it right!’ Just as we need a glass pool fence Gold Coast to protect the water from splashing all over you need to have an imaginary border that doesn’t allow for any unnecessary thoughts splashing over!
Teenagers are most prone to try to banish their parents in every way possible. Most don’t respect their parents and those who do, just do it for the fear of their parents. But what you should know is that parents are the only two persons in the world who will do anything to see their kids succeed. Not even will your spouse sacrifice as much as your parents sacrificed to bring you up. You may have asked for a glass pool fence as a kid and they would have had it constructed just for you although it may have cost them more than they could! Always respect and listen to your parents because they always want the best for you!
Prioritize in life
You will also need to prioritize in your life. This is one of the most important things that teenagers need to learn. That prioritizing will help you to get the best of things in life. Most often as teenagers we live the messy life that we think is ‘cool’. But try prioritizing your schedule and how you live your life and you will be able to see the change that it makes in your life!